Is it okay to be in love with your best friend??

The answer to the question above is yes but it's always the circumstances that makes it harder. It's okay to be in love but that doesn't always say that you end up together. That's the hard thing I guess.

Friendship, is one thing and love, is another. It's two different things and it's like two different games that you should know how to play well in order for you to not screw up cause if not, you're back at the end of the line.

I remember one person said to me once that in a relationship, friendship should be abundant because the love just fades away and the friendship is what makes the relationship stays.

I've read and heard about people falling for their best friends more times than I can remember. It's almost all the same.

Of course, it might be friendship throughout at first but somehow, somewhere along the way you WILL actually develop feelings. Some are real and some are just pure infatuation.

I think it all starts when you get intimate. I mean you know, hugging and other stuff. Especially if you're best friend belongs to the opposite sex or to another sex.


Sometimes, it's even because the other person received mixed signals or might have interpreted something to something more. Actions may lead to feelings to you know?

Sometimes the actions are just plain irresistible and you can't help but develop feeling to your best friend.

Then when the best friend falls in love ore enters into another relationship romantically the one suffers silently. The person just watches the other one be happy and remain happy with another someone as this person drowns himself/herself deeper in misery.

Well, I'm not saying that all 'I'm in love with my best friend' story ends like this but it's USUALLY like this so you know.

I just think that you can't actually fall in love with someone who isn't your best friend. Cause you see, when you're in love with someone, they became your best friends and your best friends becomes second in your list. That's real and I promise you I can attest to that.

When you're in love, you need someone who you can trust, you can be honest with, someone who you can be yourself with, etc...

Doesn't that sound like a best friend to you? It does to me.